Friday, 19 June 2020

Sometimes you deserve better …


For so many times it has happened to all of us that we ask for something that we think is going to be enough in our lives and we don’t get them, we spend a lot of time to apply for a certain job and we don’t get it, we are standing at nights praying to God and do all what is needed to make ourselves close to God so that we can get what we think is good for us and still we don’t get it. Think about how many time you have asked something you think that is very important and very satisfying to you and still you don’t get it or you get it and then turns to be not as you expected. We become so frustrated that what is best for us is not with us, and we start blaming without critically think what will happen next or what could happen if we got that thing.

How many times we think that two millions is going to be enough for us for this month and as soon as we get them something happens and we ask for two more millions, that is because we don’t know what is best for us and we think that something is best for us and we should think and have our own plans but what if what we think is best for us becomes not what we get, or comes in different way than how we expected, you may ask for a degree but what if it comes with illness, it won’t the best option for you but we always don’t think things like that, we only ask for money and that is it, we don’t know if money can come with accident, we don’t think about if we got accepted in that scholarship maybe there is an accident or maybe we missed it because in the college you are going to study you will get a bigger and better scholarship than that

Sometimes what we think is the best for us, is not, it doesn’t matter if we realize it or not. The only one who knows what is best for us is the one who gives us what he know is the best for us and sometimes after we miss what we were thinking that is best for us he is then giving us what we deserve, that is actually best for us not in thoughts. Sometimes we want relationships with other people and we miss them and we get other people, just know that, that is not bad luck, instead it is what is better for you.

We deserve better and God knows that we deserve better and he know what is better for us and he gives what is better and not what we want. So instead of blaming after we didn’t get something, and cursing around and give up we should all be grateful with what will happen next and appreciate that God gives us what we deserve and as we know we deserve better than we always want

From now on we should ask what we want but we should not blame when we miss them and instead let’s look forward to work on what God has given us and make it our wishes and live happily from it as the reality of life is none sees tomorrow or what will happen next and only there is weather stations and not future stations, none predicts your future or none predicts it correctly at least.

Imagine how many people when you were a kid have been telling you that you will be a good doctor, or a lawyer, or a journalist, or an officer, or a business man, but things have turned into something different and even your passionate have changed? That is to prove that none can predict your future so stop listening to those people who are telling you that you should do this because you will be this, how do they know. Weather is predicted by using different aspects and it doesn’t turn out 100% as predicted so how do you think someone is going to predict your life by using only one thing he/she saw only once in your life.

How many people have told you that you will be an accountant because you were very good in 1st grade mathematics but you became very bad in 10th grade mathematics, that is how life goes we always struggle, spend most of our times to study science, we pray every time and ask to pass our science but we fail them and we pass art subjects and we blame ourselves for that and people around us blame us and they think that we are meaningless because we study art and in the future times we find ourselves the best artists ever, so that will teach you how to be appreciative with what you have and work on it to become better you

I spent a lot of my 5th, 6th, and 7th grade time to study science that I could barely pass on every test, but I couldn’t what the future holds for me and until I was chosen to study in business school that I didn’t have to study chemistry, or physics and Biology had nothing to do with me, that is how life is you don’t get what you want, but you get what you deserve and always remember you deserve better and the only one who knows what is better for you is the one who gives you.
All that time we use regretting of what we have missed, we could use that time bettering what we have gotten and see where the future will take us through them, many people are failing spending their time to think of what they have done wrong in the past and never enjoy their present and never build their future. Past is somewhere to refer and learn from what we have done and not somewhere to live, we learn from the future to make our future a better place for us

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I have three things to conclude with, always when life gets hard, measurable and tough, remember there is always a happiness after sorrow, when people talk on your back remember dogs bark on something they can’t reach and when you don’t get what you have been always asking for and spend all your time building it remember sometimes you deserve better


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